It's so awesome when a set of words can meander into our lives and somehow stick... often resonating years later with deeper meaning than whatever profound meaning first occurred. Anyway... several years ago, I heard something like that and it's stuck with me ever since. One of my favorite artists is Lauryn Hill, who was once very famous as a mainstream musician. One might call her pop, hip hop, or maybe even soul. Possibly even R&B. In any event, when she began to feel herself slipping away from herself, she took a voyage inward and years later released an album most refer to as "Lauryn - Unplugged."
This album has many great songs, and is very rich in thought, reflection... and then some. One of my favorite songs on the album is called, "I Get Out." It talks about living life out of the box, being free to just be. Somewhere on that album, she talks (not in a song, just in a spoken interlude) about how nice it is to be free - be who God created you to be. She mentions how it feels to put aside vanity and pressure to be perfect, flawless and fit some standard. How neat it is to just let your belly out and then when you see another person who is also living free, belly out, unafraid to just be free, you can smile and say, "You, too?"
Too many of us are hiding. Even if we have great reasons for hiding... wonderful respectable causes for our masks, disguises, and ahem... girdles... it is my hope and prayer for all of us that we find the time and ability to love ourselves fully and completely enough, to let it all out, get out of our boxes, step firmly into each breath and step of life, meeting friends with the nerve to free themselves, and smiling....
"You, too?"
I admire this post,I was wondering if you may have any ideas how I could come out of hiding and just be myself? Any ideas?
ReplyDeleteFirst, I think it is necessary to be comfortable with yourself, and understand yourself. This is different than 'knowing yourself' or knowing who you are. You need to fully accept and value yourself, just as you are. That's what I do, or try to do. Once I am able to say, "Okay, this is who I am, and how I am, and I love it," then I don't have to worry so much about what I look like or seem like to others. Preserving my own contentment, ease, and carefree nature is just more important and makes more sense to me than worrying about what everyone else is doing or thinking about me. That's uncomfortable. I like being comfortable, and over the years, I have learned that being comfortable involves being me, liking who I am, unconditionally. God has taught me to love myself the way He does. That's awesome... and a whole different story.... :-)
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